DiscoverDoing It Together: Making Sense of Low Libido, Sex, and Intimacy in Marriage.Understanding the Pitfalls of Transactional Intimacy - with Tyler | Ep. 98
Understanding the Pitfalls of Transactional Intimacy - with Tyler | Ep. 98

Understanding the Pitfalls of Transactional Intimacy - with Tyler | Ep. 98

Update: 2024-06-04
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Tyler and his wife struggled with intimacy throughout their 11 years of marriage. After meeting at 16 and waiting until marriage four years later, they both expected that the sexual experience would bring joy and fun to their lives, but it did not. His wife was plagued by pain, and after having two children, the exhaustion and stress of their lives dimmed all expressions of genuine connection and intimacy.


Tyler thought that doing more around the house would help, but this only turned the experience into a transaction, which felt inauthentic and forced. After many failed attempts to fix their problem, his wife found Janna’s podcast and realized they weren’t alone in their struggle. Tyler shares the difficulties they both faced unlearning a lifetime of inaccurate information and how they are rebuilding their connection today.

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Understanding the Pitfalls of Transactional Intimacy - with Tyler | Ep. 98

Understanding the Pitfalls of Transactional Intimacy - with Tyler | Ep. 98

Janna Denton-Howes: Marriage Coach | Sex Educator | Low Libido Expert